Control Your Own Destiny
Control Your Own Destiny.
No matter who will judge you, in this world, you have to be true to yourself and be in control of your destiny. I have nobody to blame for any life decisions then myself. Once I got that perspective as a teenager, I became more self reliant and assertive. I always stood for something. Being a controller of my own destiny gave me the opportunity to be this way. Nobody answers for me. This kind of personality will help you be independent and not a blamer of others. Do not quit and always strive to learn.
Bring Care To Others.
The more beauty, love, and care you bring to others, the more purpose you have in this life. If this world is evil, you have all the right to make it beautiful. If you know people that cause pain, you have the ability to stop them via beauty or strictness. We have to be mindful that most people are taught to be in it for themselves. It will take a lot of time for them to adjust. You have the right to either help them or not. Nobody can judge you for trying to save energy on more important to you things than to save others.
Great Parents.
I have been so lucky to have been taught by my parents, Iosif and Marta. I understand that empathy does not always mean to abide by other’s bad behavior. Sometimes, you have to be stern and show them that their actions will be met with strength. Some learn how to develop as people through the slave-master kind of life. They need to be spiritually beaten to learn something. Do not step on them, especially when they are trying to learn. We should elevate them AWAY from the “slave-master morality” (coined by Iosif Andriasov) way of life.
Besides our parents, we do not truly, objectively, know where we came from. We do not even remember stories about our great great-grandfathers and great great-grandmothers. It shows you that, while our life is important to some degree, we need to look at the grand picture. We are a tiny spec in the universe. Luckily, though, we have the ability to bring beauty to the world that will transcend our tiny spec feature. Do your part to control your own destiny.
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